Had an opportunity to attend an event at Cincinnati Christian University last night. The event featured J.R. Mahon of XXXchurch. I’m a believer in the ministry of XXXchurch. (Just take a look at the shirt I’m wearing at the top of this page.) Their purpose is to engage people in an honest discussion about the dangers of pornography. Porn has become so normalized in our culture that families (dad, mom, and kids) are attending porn conventions together. And, by and large, the church has been…well…silent. This is why I love XXXchurch. They refuse to keep quiet on this issue. They are out on the front lines telling the truth about porn and extending the healing grace of Jesus to people who have been wounded by these sexual counterfeits.
Here are a few highlights that I took away from J.R.’s talk last night.
-The porn industry takes in $55 billion worldwide each year. It takes in $12 billion annually in the U.S. alone. For perspective, $12 billion is more than the revenue generated by the NFL, NBA, and Major League Baseball combined. More perspective: the porn industry’s annual income in the U.S. is twice the combined annual revenue of NBC, CBS, and ABC.
-The largest demographic of porn consumers is boys ages 12-17 years old. (This is why I shake my head when parents shy away from engaging their children on this issue.)
-Two of the fastest growing demographics of porn consumers:
1. Seniors (retirement + internet access = a spike in porn consumption)
2. Women (it’s not just a “guy thing” anymore)
-There are major porn conventions in L.A., Las Vegas, and Miami…but that’s just the beginning. The goal is to have an annual porn convention in every major market in this country.
-Accountability is key. If we hope to live with purity, we’ve got to be authentic. If someone isn’t consistently asking you hard questions, you are primed to fall into impurity.
-Often, the church has chosen to cast stones instead of extending grace. Case in point…J.R. stopped at a gas station on his way to Cincinnati. He was driving the “porn cruiser,” which is XXXchurch’s SUV that is decked out in bright colors and XXXchurch slogans. There was a lady at the gas station who started yelling and condemning him because of his vehicle. She likely has no idea about what their ministry does. She just saw the word “porn” and started hurling insults.
It was an awesome night last night. It reminded me of just how dangerous and addictive pornography really is. It reminded me that I’ve got to keep an open line of communication with my wife, my accountability partner, and other people in my life. And it reminded me that the church has to step it up when it comes to the issue of pornography. It is killing people inside and outside of our churches. The church has got to reclaim it’s position as the “amazing grace place.” When grace is available, healing and restoration can happen.
Here’s the verse that’s on my mind the day after the XXXchurch session:
How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. (Psalm 119:9)